by Mark DeNicola |
One of the greatest challenges we are continually coming across is the resounding difficulty associated with letting others go. It seems that no matter how hard we try, or the number of ways we try to explain things, certain individuals –that we have grown to love –simply refuse to move along with us.
Rather then getting frustrated by the fact, or in some cases even thrusting a feeling of doubt upon what you have come to understand, I encourage you all to remember these points:
- We all have one destination. Meaning that no matter what path we take, each and every one of us are going to always be exactly where we need to be.
- Trust their higher self. No matter how stubborn or clueless another’s outward self may seem, trust that their higher self is always going to take in exactly everything it has to from every experience it faces.
- Their refusal is a perfect challenge you contributed in creating. It may frustrate you, but that frustration is simply another thing you need to look at within yourself.
- Instant gratification does not last. Meaning that giving into their doubt just for the sake of keeping them happy will not serve anyone.
Personally I find that applying these principles to every challenge I face helps to ensure I do not further box myself into a ego-driven state. Give them a try, they may just make letting go feel a lot more like finding love.
by Mark DeNicola